Thursday, September 18, 2008

Destiny or Tragedy

I read that talk by Spencer W Kimball on Monday before I went in for the D&C. I enjoyed reading it but it confirmed more than anything of how blessed Cody and I have been through out own little tragedy. I have realized somethings that sound pretty cliche but have become quite real to us. Everyone's situations in life are their own. Not to say that people can't relate or sympathize by any means, but that people will and do react to every situation differently no matter how similar it is to someone else's. Cody and I have been really really sad with the loss of our pregnancy but we don't feel angry or bitter or that our situation is not fair. We know this is what we "signed up for" and said we could handle in this life. We feel like our trials are very minor compared to some things others have to endure. We have had some really peaceful moments between the two of us the last few days that can only come through loss. We feel closer than ever to each other and to the Lord. We are still going through some dark times and cry every day but we know we are blessed and comforted by our family and the Lord. Thanks for all your support and prayers. We love you all.
Love,
Kate and Cody

2 comments:

TJ said...

We love you guys too.

Shot by blaine said...

You guys are such good people. Not to say you cant mess up if you want to or have an accident. you know, no pressure to be perfect.
I love you both.